Wedding Wednesdays: You just got engaged.

Kicking this series off with the initial checklist - the immediate things you should do as soon as you get engaged.

Before this series gets into full swing, let me say again that everything I say on weddings is my own opinion, and it is OK to not agree!  Mack and I are quite nontraditional in our approach so we haven't done a lot of the 'normal' things in planning for our wedding.  Take all of my checklists and do what makes sense to you - if you don't need or want something, take it out; if you want something that I don't mention, add it in!  It's that simple.

Here you have it - my first things first checklist :)

1. Announce your engagement!

Don't forget to hold off on the classic ring photo on Insta until after you have told your nearest and dearest.  You really don't want your mum or best friend finding out on social media!

2. Draft a budget

At the very least, have a total figure in mind of how much $$ you have to work with before you get going planning a champagne wedding on a beer budget.

3. Discuss with each other the type of wedding you both want

I recommend separately writing down your top 3 requirements, and then fusing them together to create your top 3 important wedding features to you.  This means that when you budget, you can splurge on those things, and compromise on everything else, because you already decided what is important and what isn't.

4.  Start thinking about the guest list, and how many people you want to invite

This really should be one of the first things to at least get a draft of; it makes it much easier to budget, choose venues & get quotes if you have a number in mind.

5. Enjoy being engaged!

This is a new stage of life, and it's so easy to storm in head first into the planning phase of the wedding.  Weddings can consume your every waking moment if you let it, so at least for the first couple of months, enjoy engagement.

And that's it!

Unless you have a really short lead time, you don't need to be doing anything else straight away!

Pin this pic to easily find it later - contact me if you would like the PDF version also!


Next week, we get going on the 12+ Month Checklist.

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Wedding Wednesdays: An Intro.

Mack and I got engaged back in February, and this year is speeding along!

Planning is well underway, and, even if I do say so myself, I'm so organised haha.

I have been meaning to get going on my wedding blogs for a while now, but just haven't had the time.  But here we go!  The intro to my new series.

Wedding Wednesdays.

Starting here, join me through everything that comes up along the way through this wedding planning journey.  This could be anything & everything, from checklists to follow as a guide, to resources I found helpful or resources I don't rate, to opinion pieces on elements of the wedding industry, & anything in between! 

It might come as no surprise that we are a little un-traditional, and as such, my opinions may differ from the norm.  I will try to compare my view to the more traditional views where possible, but I would appreciate recognising now that all of the things I say about weddings are my own opinions, and they are the way Mack and I are thinking about our wedding; you might agree with me, you might not - it is OK either way!

I also noticed that when I search through wedding blogs, they tend to be mostly American, sometimes British.  There isn't much in the way of Australian blogs.  So hopefully this helps any Australian brides out there with some more local information and wedding sites to follow :)

Thank you for following me on this journey - I hope you enjoy!


Join me this evening for the first wedding post :)
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So let's talk about... Keep Cups

Once I started working in an office, I realised I was dropping in to pick up a coffee every day on the way to work.  My colleagues were also doing the same.

To do some quick math, if the 3 of us had a coffee Monday - Friday, that would be 15 disposable cups a week.

Assuming we all took our annual leave and got a coffee 48 weeks of the year, that would be 720 cups a year.

If we had been doing this every day since I started working here (3.5 years), then we would have gone through 2520 disposable cups, just between the 3 of us.

That's crazy!

It was about 3 months in that we all got Keep Cups, with a little carry bag to carry them around.  So great, especially after the more recent revelation that disposable cups are not recyclable.  And even if you use a BioCup, you still have to rely on the individual disposing of it correctly so it is actually recycled.


So if you're in the market for a keep cup so that you can do your bit for the planet, here is my review of 4 different brands (yes I have a lot of keep cups haha)!

Keep Cup

Keep Cup was the first ever reusable cup I bought, and I love it!  I got the one with the glass cup because I prefer it to plastic; one of my colleagues got a plastic one because, at the time, they didn't make the glass ones in large (rest assured, they do now).


Overall, I have found them to be very durable.  I used this cup daily, and I replaced the lid only once when it started leaking (it took maybe 18 months for that to happen, which isn't bad at all).  I also replaced the glass cup once, but that was definitely user error... I accidentally threw it at the handrail in my coffee shop!

The lid is probably my favourite part of this cup.  The hard plastic lid with the plug works so well, and it is really nice to drink out of.

I think aesthetically, the cups look nice (although I don't like the new double walled look they have going at the moment, but that is just me), and there is such a vast range of colours to choose from.  I also really enjoy that you can buy parts separately, so if you lose the plug, or the lid starts to leak, or you just want a different colour, you can do so cheaply & easily.

Price wise, you're looking at anywhere from AUD$14 - $34, depending on the style you go for and the size.

Review!
Range of colours: 10/10
Durability: 9/10
Lid: 10/10
Cup: 7/10 (plastic), 9/10 (glass)
Would I recommend: 10/10


Frank Green

Frank Green is huge at the moment!  My colleague & I jumped on this band wagon when we were looking for a new cup (I was looking to downsize my medium Keep Cup, her KC lid was leaking), and, to be honest, we were pretty disappointed.


The design is pretty funky, and the leak proof lid seems like a great idea.  You can also get it with PayPass in the cup to make paying for coffee super efficient (I hate this, but some people love it).

But there are a few things that really let this cup down:
- You can't fill the cup all the way up to the top.  There is a max fill line, but trying to get baristas to not fill it up all the way is challenging.
- If you do fill it pass the max fill line, the leak proof lid isn't so leak proof.
- The lid has so many pieces (see pic below)!  It is so annoying to wash, and getting this back together properly each time is harder than you would think.  I actually stopped using the lid altogether and used the cup like a normal mug.

I also have the Frank Green water bottle... the lid is also annoying, and started leaking on me.  It does come with an app to track your water intake, but you have to tap your water bottle every time you finish it, and you just forget... great idea, but just a little bit too clunky.

Price wise you are looking at AUD$32 - $40.

Review!
Range of colours: 5/10
Durability: 6/10
Lid: 1/10
Cup: 7/10
Would I recommend: 2/10


Sol

I got this cup from an event that was being held in my venue (because who doesn't need another keep cup!), and I wanted to try out the brand because I have seen it around.


I love that this cup is big - it's like holding a hug mug.  I just love wrapping my hands around a big mug, so it works so well for me.

The lid is where this one falls short - soft silicone just isn't nice to drink out of!  I think if it was a harder silicone, it would be OK.

There isn't a huge range of colours to choose from, but certainly not a big deal.  I do also really enjoy that Sol also make water bottles, tote bags and metal straws.

Price wise, you're looking at AUD$30 for a medium (12oz) cup.

Review!
Range of colours: 4/10
Durability: 8/10
Lid: 5/10
Cup: 10/10
Would I recommend: 8/10

Pottery for the Planet

This cup belongs to my colleague - it was her replacement for the Frank Green cup.


I think the premise of this company is great - they make limited edition pottery pieces to raise funds for environmental causes.

The cups are also quite pretty.  They are handmade & painted with various designs.  Because of this, it probably is important to note that the colours & patterns will vary from the pictures on the website.

Ceramic gets hot!  Carrying this thing with a hot coffee in it everyday isn't ideal.  They do sell heat bands on the website, but it costs extra - and when these cups are already AUD$35 - 39, you don't really want to pay any more.

The lid is also soft silicone!  So annoying to drink out of again.

My colleague likes this cup, but I don't really rate it.

Review!
Range of colours: 7/10
Durability: 8/10
Lid: 1/10
Cup: 7/10
Would I recommend: 4/10

So which one would I recommend?

Honestly, I can't stop going back to Keep Cup!  I have shopped around and tried new things from time to time, but my Keep Cups are still my favourite.  There are many options for different colours and styles, and I really really like the lid to drink out of.

If it were possible to get the cup shape of the Sol cup combined with the Keep Cup lid, that would be the ultimate, because I just love a really fat mug to hug!  But failing that,  I would highly recommend the Keep Cup.


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Random Inspiration

Today an e-newsletter landed in my inbox from a lady I saw speak at a conference earlier in the year.  She was inspiring to me then, with her thoughtful stories, and intriguing way of speaking to an audience.  She told us a story that day to make a point about marketing techniques (a story I won't recount now, but it is probably in her blog somewhere), and it stuck with me - I have told many people the same story over and over.

Usually, I scan over these emails, and then delete them, or file them away for reading at a later date, but this one caught my eye and I read it right away.

Her latest story resonated with me, not because I have had a health scare, but because life is short.  Get better at saying yes, and get much better at saying no.

Read it here.

This lady's name is Amanda Stevens, who I believe won the 2018 keynote speaker of the year award here in Australia.

And she's amazing.

Check her, and her latest blog, out :)

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Monthly Update #10: October

I have said this pretty much every month... but this year is flying by!

October went particularly fast for me.

The normal things like gym & dancing were in full swing.

The weather has finally started to warm up, which is lovely (although we did get a lot of rain).  Mack is currently going through a slightly obsessive iced tea phase, but I'm not complaining.  So delicious, and such a great Spring/Summer beverage!


We have spent a lot of this month planning our own new year party at the farm, which is super fun.  Lots of evenings at home designing and making decor etc.  It is going to be good I think.

We spent another weekend at the farm.  It's just so nice being up there away from everything.  Mostly we were there for NYE prep, but still super relaxing to not have a phone or normal life distractions.


Both Mack & Tara had their birthday (on the same day) - we had a lovely pub dinner with Mack's parents, which was really nice.  Tara and I are now due for another degustation birthday dinner haha.

Mack and I also went to O Bar - so amazing.  You can find my review here.



October saw me attend my first baby shower, which was a lot of fun!  It was actually really relaxed, with some optional games.  The weather was so spectacular - such a perfect day.  So lovely to spend some time with some old friends from high school :)


We actually had a lovely weekend the last weekend.  After the baby shower, we had such a slow paced weekend - going for evening walks, hanging out with friends etc.  We finally checked out our friends' new cafe - so delicious.  If you're looking for a more old school milk bar for breakfast, this is definitely a place for you.


I know I said I would start my wedding blogs this month... I got as far as making a plan for this, but I have so much to say I don't know where to start.  I will be continuing working on this and will hopefully get going soon.  Planning wise... lots happened this month, which is amazing!  I feel so organised & stress free :)

Until next month.
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