Here we go with another wedding checklist.
I am 2 months out from my own wedding right now - we are really getting down to the pointy end of the planning now :). There are quite a lot of little things to be done!
1. Make sure you have applied for your marriage license
Number 1 priority for sure! Our celebrant is doing this for us - just make sure it is more than 30 days out (Australian requirement).
2. Touch base with your vendors
Check in with all confirmed suppliers, just to make sure they are still good to go!
3. Print programs, menu cards and other stationary
Now is the time to print all required stationary for the day. I actually printed only invitations & am foregoing all other printing, because it is a cost that adds up & ultimately ends up in the bin. If you really want to print everything, then go for it - if not, pop all of your details on your wedding website, or consider using chalk boards to let your guests know what is happening.
4. Have your final gown fitting
I would do this about 6 weeks out - close enough to the day that you likely won't change shape too much, but far enough out that there is time to alter if required. When you go to the fitting, take your shoes & accessories with you so you can see the full final look.
5. Create playlist/plan songs for the day
If you have a DJ or a wedding band for the reception, you don't have to worry a whole lot about this. But don't forget to think about the music situation for the following times:
- Processional (walking down the aisle)
- Any music before or during the ceremony
- Music for during the signing of the certificate
- Recessional (back up the aisle)
- Cocktail hour
- The first dance song
- Dinner music
- Any specific songs you want to be played
6. Finalise the run sheet
Lock in exactly what will happen on the day & when. On top of that, tell your guests! I am posting my runsheet on my wedding website for all guests to read - guests hate it when they don't know what should be happening & when etc. A whole post coming on this soon - wedding runsheets.
7. Finalise numbers for the caterer
Find out from your venue/caterer exactly when the cut off is for final numbers & let them know on time. Your RSVP due date for guests should be 2 or so weeks before this date, so you have time to chase any stragglers.
8. Choose gifts for your bridal party etc.
Gifts for your wedding party aren't super necessary, but I think it is nice to thank them for the time, energy & money they have poured into helping you get to your wedding day. Don't go something generic - these people are your nearest & dearest so actually think about it & give them something meaningful.
9. Hen/Buck parties
You shouldn't have to do anything for these other than show up! Definitely discuss dates with your wedding party before plans get under way. I would recommend doing this a few weeks out from the wedding if possible (although my hen night is 2 weeks out because my maid of honour's schedule).
10. Book beauty needs - hair cuts, mani-pedi etc.
Think ahead of time about all of the extra things you might want in time for your wedding day. Are you spray tanning? Are you whiting your teeth? Do you want a manicure & pedicure, or perhaps a facial? When did you last cut your hair?
I booked my haircuts for the first half of this year in December, in preparation for wedding - my final haircut is 2 weeks out from the day. I have a mani booked along a couple of days out from the wedding. I am going this close to my wedding day because I am a disaster when it comes to keeping my nails looking good!
11. Wedding rehearsal arrangements
If you are planning a rehearsal dinner, get these plans locked in. I don't think it is really expected anymore to essentially host another event for everyone before the wedding itself (& even if it was, it is such a huge additional expense that isn't that necessary!). I would, however, recommend at least having a catch up with everyone who is playing a part on the day to make sure they know when they need to be wear, what order to walk down the aisle, what song to play when etc. to ensure the day runs really smoothly.
12. Break in wedding shoes
There would be nothing worse than getting blisters on your wedding day! Be sure to walk around the house or office or wherever wearing your shoes in so they are super comfy ahead of wearing them at the wedding.
13. Ensure you have accessories, underwear, tie, handbag etc.
Make a list of everything you need/want to wear & make sure you have it all - all jewellery, shoes, underwear/lingerie, handbag, tie, shawl/gloves. Pack it all together so you know it is ready to go.
Once all of these things are done, there isn't much left! That way, your last month leading up to your big day should be relatively stress free.
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